MK Life
By Clint Vernoy
A few years ago while still ministering in the jungle of Venezu-
ela, I went through the biggest change imaginable in just under 12
hours. I went from preaching in flip-flops in our Indian village in
the jungle to preaching in a suit. I hadn't worn a suit for over a year.
I flew out of the jungle at sunrise with the Missionary Aviation
Fellowship pilot. Af-
ter 12 hours of travel,
I went straight from
the Chattanooga air-
port to the Wednes-
day night service of a
supporting church. I
walked in and shook
hands with the pastor
and greeted his wife,
both dear friends, as
I would always do ac-
cording to custom in
Venezuela. I continued to walk through the foyer of the church
and only then realized I must have done something wrong, though
for the life of me, I had no idea what it might have been. Everyone
stood in the foyer in absolute silence and expressions of shock.
What had I done? When I realized my mistake, I was ready to head
back to the jungle and hide. I had greeted the pastor´s wife with a
kiss to the cheek. To not greet the pastor's wife as I did, had I been
in Venezuela, I would have been considered cold, standoffish,
rude, or even arrogant and superior minded. To greet her as I did
in Chattanooga was inappropriate at best or scandalous at worst.
I turned to the pastor and saw a smile of understanding. He knew I
had just experienced a feeling he had known all his life. He started
to giggle and waved me off saying, “Don't worry about it, Clint,
I know how you feel.” He was a missionary kid (MK). I had just
done the culturally correct thing in the wrong culture.
16 BIMI WORLD
Number 3, 2011